{"id":493,"date":"2007-10-30T07:00:44","date_gmt":"2007-10-30T06:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2007\/10\/resolution-conclusions-2007\/"},"modified":"2008-05-12T11:05:57","modified_gmt":"2008-05-12T10:05:57","slug":"resolution-conclusions-2007","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2007\/10\/30\/resolution-conclusions-2007\/","title":{"rendered":"Resolution Conclusions 2007"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>*Hey, I did this <a href=\"http:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2006\/10\/resolution-conclusions\/\">last year<\/a> too! Maybe it&#8217;s turning into a &#8220;thing&#8221;?!*<\/p>\n<h3>1: Blitz &#8220;to do&#8221; and &#8220;to buy&#8221; lists<\/h3>\n<p>Karen and I have a big &#8220;todo&#8221; list. It used to be a handwritten sheet of paper, pinned to the notice board, divided up into &#8220;things to do&#8221; and &#8220;things to buy&#8221;. Nowadays, it&#8217;s on a wiki, and it is basically divided up into &#8220;tasks for Karen&#8221; and &#8220;tasks for Pete&#8221;. The principle is the same.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, over the course of the year we&#8217;ve really kept on top of this list. Sure, lots of things have been added to it, but we&#8217;ve managed to keep it at roughly the same size, and there are very few items on there that have been on since the start of the year. I&#8217;m quite pleased with this.<\/p>\n<h3>2: Less computer time, more films<\/h3>\n<p>The most crucial point here was to spend less time surfing the Internet, pretending that absorbing all this data is good for me. Instead, I wanted to spend more time watching films, basking in the unashamed brainlessness of it all. I think I&#8217;ve succeeded, more or less. I&#8217;m sure that next year&#8217;s resolution will be something along the lines of &#8220;Less films, more blah&#8221;. Maybe computer games. If Rockstar released a &#8220;GTA San Andreas Stories&#8221; for the PS2 I&#8217;d be in heaven.<\/p>\n<h3>3: Quality, not quantity. Less reading and writing blogs<\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;ve certainly managed to write less, and I feel like the quality is higher. However, I&#8217;m still reading more blogs than I need to. But it&#8217;s hard to stop myself, when there&#8217;s so many well-written sites out there.<\/p>\n<h3>4: Make more music<\/h3>\n<p>My actual resolution set a much more specific target, which I am not going to print here, for reasons of my own. Suffice to say, I have failed to meet this target in the most magnificent manner possible, despite having revised it downwards twice during the year. Some things just aren&#8217;t meant to be.<\/p>\n<h3>5: Stop being afraid of strangers<\/h3>\n<p>Who are you? Get away from me! Argh!<\/p>\n<h3>6: Keep writing with my pen held properly<\/h3>\n<p>Back story <a href=\"http:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2005\/07\/get-a-grip\/\">here<\/a>. Towards the end of last year, I started making an effort to improve my grip. Basically, this resolution has been an unquestionable success. I now hold a pen like a normal human being. This is so fucking awesome.<\/p>\n<h3>7: Less nostalgia<\/h3>\n<p>Another success. I used to dwell on the past, thinking about all those good times that passed me by in the blink of an eye. But now I realise that one day, I&#8217;ll look back on today (or hereabouts) and wish that I hadn&#8217;t wasted so much time being nostalgic. There was the threat of a vicious cycle there, but I&#8217;ve managed to break it, and now I am able to appreciate every moment as it happens.<\/p>\n<h3>8: Be a leader, not a follower<\/h3>\n<p>Hahahahahah.<\/p>\n<h3>9: Stop worrying about other peoples&#8217; blogs. Their spam comments, botched templates and missing alt-tags are their own problems<\/h3>\n<p>Tick.<\/p>\n<h3>10: When someone sends you a link saying &#8220;Click this, it&#8217;s really funny\/cute&#8221; then don&#8217;t, because it&#8217;s just that sneezing panda yet again.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2007\/01\/how-many-roads-must-a-man-drive-down\/\">As mentioned here<\/a>. Haven&#8217;t seen the sneezing panda since.<\/p>\n<h3>11: Get some exercise<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"\/blog\/category\/cycling\/\">Sorted<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>12: Get a project<\/h3>\n<p>Had one, but it went away again. I&#8217;m not sure whether that counts as a success or not. I should have been more explicit in my statement of the resolution (ie, &#8220;Get, and keep, a project&#8221;).<\/p>\n<h3>13: Improve posture<\/h3>\n<p>*Straightens back.*<\/p>\n<p>Uhm&#8230; yes.<\/p>\n<h3>14: Don&#8217;t be so crap at making new friends. Actually, just see #5<\/h3>\n<p>Marginally better. But I&#8217;m still very bad at this whole &#8220;small talk&#8221; thing. Maybe I should see this as a strength, rather than a weakness.<\/p>\n<h3>15: Learn a bit of Polish<\/h3>\n<p>When we were contemplating a short weekend away in Warsaw, this seemed like a very worthwhile resolution. But then we changed our plan and decided to go to <a href=\"http:\/\/pete.nu\/blog\/2007\/10\/center-parcs\/\">Center Parcs<\/a> instead, so the resolution seemed less important. Still, I&#8217;d like to learn some Polish one day (I&#8217;m a quarter Polish, by the way) so it&#8217;s still something that I&#8217;d like to do.<\/p>\n<h3>16: Don&#8217;t keep getting up from the table in the middle of meals<\/h3>\n<p>On Karen&#8217;s request (though I added it to the resolutions list voluntarily). I am getting better at this, but I&#8217;m not yet perfect.<\/p>\n<h3>17: Take time in conversation<\/h3>\n<p>By which I mean, don&#8217;t just blurt out any old nonsense. Stop, think, come up with an intelligent response. This doesn&#8217;t really sit well with #14, as small talk needs to be relatively rapid-fire, so I don&#8217;t think that I&#8217;ll be able to do both. If you take too much time coming up with a carefully-executed reply, you tend to find that your audience has walked away. Meh, their loss.<\/p>\n<h3>18: When on the phone at work, replace &#8220;Cheers&#8221; with &#8220;Goodbye&#8221; and &#8220;No problem&#8221; with &#8220;You&#8217;re Welcome&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>A bit more formality is probably appropriate in this environment. This one was quite a recent addition to the list, so will probably be carried over to next year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*Hey, I did this last year too! Maybe it&#8217;s turning into a &#8220;thing&#8221;?!* 1: Blitz &#8220;to do&#8221; and &#8220;to buy&#8221; lists Karen and I have a big &#8220;todo&#8221; list. 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